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Your pain is real,

but it doesn’t have to be permanent. 

Restoration can start today.

Rediscover HOPE. 
                  Rebuild TRUST.
                               Restore Relationship.

What Makes FiLumena Different?

1. Christocentric Healing

  • Root your recovery in grace, spiritual truth, and rediscover your identity in Jesus Christ as a beloved daughter of God

  • Use prayer, scripture, and spiritual exercises as tools, not pressure

2.  Safe, Compassionate, Confidential Support

and Accountability

  • Join one-to-one video sessions with a compassionate coach

  • Choose flexible session times to meet your needs and work with your busy schedule

3. Trauma Recovery Tools

  • Learn how betrayal rewires the mind and heart

  • Gain emotional regulation skills, boundary setting, and coping strategies

  • Process grief, anger, confusion, and loss in healthy ways that restore hope

  • Learn and engage in the Ricketts-FiLumena Emotional Healing Cycle

4. Restoring Identity and Voice

  • Reclaim who you are apart from what happened to you

  • Discover the woman God created you to be—even stronger than before

  • Begin to rebuild trust—with yourself, with God, with your spouse,* with others

5. Ongoing Support and Growth

  • Opportunities for accountability and checking in

  • Resources and guided exercises to reinforce growth

  • Space to ask hard questions, take breaks, and move forward at your pace

Begin your journey to HEALING.

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President & CEO

Introducing FiLumina

FiLumena is a Christ-centered, transformational program for wives

whose lives have been shattered by betrayal.

If your world feels broken, your trust is gone, and

your heart bruised, FiLumena is for you.

Hope and Healing are real.

Click below to schedule a free consultation.  

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Mission & Values

Rooted in Christ and drawing from Pope St. John Paul II’s philosophy, we provide comprehensive, compassionate support that restores dignity, strengthens identity, empowers women to rediscover hope, rebuild trust, and embrace their identity as daughters of the Light. Be transformed into a radiant witness of God’s redeeming love with FiLumena.

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Rediscover HOPE. 
                  Rebuild TRUST.
                               Restore Relationship.

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           Meet Your Coach:

Laura Ricketts has been married to her husband Chris for over 20 years.  Their story is one of God's goodness, mercy, redemption, and restoration. 

You can hear some of their story on the Redeemed Vision Podcast HERE.

When asked about herself, Laura says, "My husband is my most favorite person in the world, and together we have been through some crazy times, difficult times, scary situations, and blessed moments. We have seen miracles - God is so faithful! 

 

I am blessed to be called "mom" by a married daughter, her husband, two adult sons, and a teenage son. They are amazing young people and bring me so much joy! I am so proud of them!

 

I also have the privilege of being the mother of eight babies who were born forever sleeping. Five of these precious little ones were born in the hospital. I believe that I will meet them one day in Eternity and they are important members of our family.  

When I’m not hanging out with my husband - pictured in a few of the photos: did I mention he is my hero? - I may be homeschooling (still!), or avoiding Mount Laundry. I can also be found crocheting, kayaking, coaching, or reading. I aspire to one day be a crazy cat lady and have gotten a pretty good start by "attending the births" of three litters of kittens - in my own home! I also love bacon. A lot. 

I can't wait to meet you and to encourage you in embracing your identity as a "Daughter of the Light!"

How It Works

Healing happens best when you feel safe, supported, and truly seen. That’s why FiLumena uses one-to-one video sessions—personal, private, and tailored to your unique journey. Sessions are arranged at times that fit into your life, and every conversation is designed with your needs in mind. Together, we’ll create a pathway of healing that respects your pace while helping you move forward with hope and clarity. Between sessions, you’ll receive exercises, reflections, or practices to strengthen your growth and keep you supported. 

Begin your journey to restoration today!

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Is FiLumena Right for You?

If you feel:

  • overwhelmed by betrayal

  • alone, ashamed, or isolated

  • unsure how to trust again or even where to start healing

  • a longing for restoration

  • disconnected from God, from yourself, or from others

  • afraid to hope that healing and restoration are possible

 

FiLumena is for YOU.

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If you are ready to...

  • Step out of silence, fear, and shame

  • Reconnect with your worth

  • Begin a healing journey that will deepen your faith

  • Thrive—not just survive— in your life and your relationships

  • If you are ready to Rediscover hope, rebuild trust, and restore relationships
     

Then we are waiting to walk beside you.

 

FiLumena is for you.

Click the button below for a free consultation. You deserve healing. You deserve restoration. You can be whole again.

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